WISCONSIN CUSTODY AND PLACEMENT FAQ’s
- WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN CUSTODY AND PLACEMENT OF MY CHILDREN?Legal custody in Wisconsin simply means the right of a parent to make major decisions, such as school, medical and religion, for the minor children. In Wisconsin, the presumption is that there will be joint legal custody. This means that both parents have an equal say in what happens to the children regarding major decisions. Major decisions cover such matters as non-emergency health care and choice of school and religion. Others include parental consent to marry, obtain a driver’s license, or join the military. The court can only award sole custody to one party if it finds that one party is incapable of cooperating or exercising custodial duties, conditions exist which would prevent the exercise of joint custody or there has been domestic or child abuse.
Placement means physical placement or visitation. In other words, who the child spends time with and for what amount of time. The primary consideration in making this determination is what is in the best interest of the children. There are numerous factors that the court must take into account when determining the placement schedule. These factors are then applied to the specific facts of your case.
The attorneys at Nelson & Davis, LLC will be able to evaluate the facts of your case and advise you as to the best course of action or the likely result of a placement dispute.
- DOES THE COURT ALWAYS AWARD EQUAL, SHARED PLACEMENT?There is a misconception that certain types of placements schedules are mandated or presumed. Just as there is no preference as to the mother or the father for placement, there is no presumption or requirement for equal placement. The court must make a decision based on the criteria and factors referenced above. The law in Wisconsin is simply that the court shall set a schedule in which there are regular and meaningful periods of placement that maximizes the amount time the child spends with each parent. The court is also prohibited from considering one parent over the other based on sex or race. However, it may be determined that it is in the best interests of the child to be primarily placed with one parent or that there should be some form of a shared placement schedule.
- IS THERE A NORMAL OR STANDARD PLACEMENT SCHEDULE?As stated above, there is no presumption as to specific kind of schedule. There are many factors that this decision is based upon including work schedules, schedules of the children in terms of school and activities, proximity of the residences of the parents, the child’s adjustment or ability to adjust to transitions, etc.
The starting point to many schedules is usually alternating weekends which are from Friday until either Sunday evening or Monday morning. If one parent does have the majority of the time, it is also fairly common for the other parent to have at least one evening or overnight period of placement during the week. A placement schedule is considered to be shared if one parent has 25% of the overnight placement time or more. Shared placement schedules are usually discussed in two week blocks of time.
There are many options when scheduling placement. Schedules can vary based on the unique needs of your family. Placement orders can be very general and flexible or very specific. The attorneys at Nelson & Davis, LLC will be able to discuss scheduling options and suggest a variety of placement schedules to fit your goals in your case.
- WHAT HAPPENS IF WE CANNOT AGREE ON PLACEMENT?There is a specific procedure that parents must follow in a custody or placement dispute. Clearly, it is better for both you and your children to resolve matters outside of this procedure which is time consuming and costly. However, that is not always possible.
First, except in unusual situations, both parties must attend mediation. Mediation is a process in which the parties meet with a neutral, third-party who is trained in dispute resolution. Discussions and statements made in mediation are confidential and cannot be used against in you in your divorce or paternity case. You have the option of attending mediation through the county of your residence which is often available at no or very low cost. Or, you can hire a private mediator. There are very good mediators available in southeast Wisconsin and many people are able to resolve their custody and placement disputes through this process. Sometimes, mediation is deemed not to be appropriate. This usually only happens when there is domestic or child abuse or one party refuses, or is unable, to participate. If a party refuses to attend mediation, the court would generally consider that a factor which would negatively impact upon his/her custody or placement position.
Second, if mediation fails, a Guardian ad Litem must be appointed. A guardian ad litem, commonly referred to as a G.A.L., is an attorney who is appointed to represent the best interests of your child. The G.A.L. does not represent either you or your child but, instead, is charged by the court with conducting an investigation and making a recommendation as to what he or she thinks is in your child’s best interests. They will usually meet with the parties, talk with the children and talk with other potential witnesses or resources such as friends, relatives, teachers, therapists, etc. The court does not always follow the recommendation of a G.A.L., but usually does strongly consider it. Both parties are required to pay the G.A.L. fees, which includes a deposit as well as his or her hourly fees.
Third, in some counties such as Waukesha and Washington, a custody/placement study may also be required. During a custody/placement study, the court will appoint a social worker from the county social services department to conduct an investigation which is separate from the investigation done by the G.A.L. The difference between a custody/placement study and a G.A.L. investigation is that the social worker may testify at a trial or hearing while the G.A.L. is an advocate for your child’s interests and, therefore, may not testify. The social worker also makes recommendations based upon their investigation which may include a referral for services such as counseling, psychiatric or alcohol/drug evaluations, anger management counseling or parenting classes. Both parties also are usually required to pay one-half of this cost which varies depending on the county.
Many people are able to resolve their placement disputes with the assistance of a G.A.L. or the custody/placement study social worker. However, in the event the parties are unable to do so, a trial or hearing is conducted and the court decides what the placement schedule and custody will be. The attorneys at Nelson, Krueger & Millenbach, LLC will advise you as to what the likely result and cost will be for a trial.
8 thoughts on “Child Custody and Placement in Wisconsin”
I think it is best for you to state the reality to your readers instead of lying to them. #2 may state the law, but it is far from reality and you know it. It is an insult to your readers to state this claim. Our Family Courts base almost everything on gender first, and go from there. If what you say is true, and by law they are supposed to be blind to gender, there is a huge law suit just waiting for a lawyer to file suit. Any dad who goes to court soon realizes he must prove beyond a doubt he is a fit dad, and prove that he is worth more to his kids than just child support to get proper placement. If dad is squeaky clean and perfect, then yes, he may be granted equal placement. This is based solely on gender whether you want to admit it or not. Also, a dads must earn a good living or they have no shot at 50/50. Moms can have no job, a part-time job, or work minimum wage, and even have a few mental issues and there is no problem with her getting at least 50% placement. A dad better have a solid job, and be perfect, or he is disqualified to be a 50/50 dad. Again, you know this is reality. If you are looking for a lawsuit, then look up the statistics and file a law suit. It will be an easy win for you, because it is pretty dang easy to prove discrimination based on gender. I mean, the Family Courts are like companies were back it 1960! Let’s get real here.
I’m sorry you feel that way and I disagree with you wholeheartedly. You obviously have had a different experience in the family court system but there could be many reasons for that, not necessarily gender. In my extensive experience, gender is not a significant factor in custody cases anymore. This is the point I was trying to make.
When may a child decide they would like to go somewhere else rather than with the parent who has visitation that dqay
This is a complicated issue. See our post on this topic:
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My concern is if a child can decide he/she wants to go with the parent whose weekend it is not and the other parent refuses.
The example is—–child has a ball tournament out of town 3 games on Sat and suppose to play on Sun Many parents are staying at motel out of town and kids can swim after evening games. Parent that has child that weekend says no to child who wants to stay overnight with mom at motel. Other parent takes him home that night.
I’m sorry – at this point, you really need to seek the advice of an attorney. I cannot give you legal advice or answer specific questions on this forum. Good luck.