In Wisconsin, parties have the option to suspend their divorce proceedings at any time prior to the judgment of divorce, if BOTH parties want to attempt to reconcile.
It takes only one party to begin a divorce proceeding, but both parties must agree to a suspension of divorce proceedings. To do so, the parties must sign a Stipulation and Order Suspending Proceedings to Effect Reconciliation in order to start the suspension. Once this form is filed with the court, the court will honor this request by giving the parties 90 days to reconcile. This essentially has the effect of putting the case on hold and nothing happens during this time period. Any upcoming court dates are cancelled.
Let’s say that both parties agree to suspend the divorce proceedings, but one party changes his or her mind prior to the 90 days. If this happens, at any time, the party who has changed his or her mind and wants to continue the proceedings has to file a Motion and Order to Revoke Suspension of Proceedings to Effect Reconciliation. Once filed, the divorce proceedings begin again and the court will schedule a status or pre-trial date.
In the alternative, what if both parties decide that they do not need the full 90 days because reconciliation was successful? In this situation, the parties can dismiss their case by filing a Stipulation and Order for Dismissal.
You need to be aware of your time constraints however, because if after the 90 days neither party has filed anything, the divorce proceedings will simply begin again and the court will schedule a status date or pre-trial.
Please note, the above described procedures and forms are used when parties want to suspend a Legal Separation procedure as well.